Do you ever think back to when you were a kid and what you wanted to be when you grew up?
Surprisingly (or not), the first thing I wanted to be at age 5 was a dancer.
I am so glad that my mom allowed me to take dances lessons in ballet, tap & jazz. She also enrolled me in acrobatics, but I was so horrible at acrobatics that I gave up. I can’t turn a decent somersault or do the splits if my life depended on it.
I love it when I see any “older” person turn a flip, like Diana Ross did in The Wiz, tee hee. I get a big kick out of it, because it’s something I can’t do.
I had a life-changing event in 1973 and was forced to change my life goal. My next favorite thing to do was write. I was an editor on the newspaper and yearbook staffs during high school. So no more dancing, from now on, Journalism. My father worked as a photographer for a local newspaper so when I graduated from high school, I saw my future as a journalist at the same newspaper. I majored in journalism in college, until . . .
Ut-oh, life happened again and a new change happened in 1977-78. Journalism was out, baby was in, 1977. Then came Belly dance in 1978. I taught my little sister Candy everything I learned in my belly dance classes. One year I was at her dance recital and a little girl (show-off) was dancing to “ I want to be a dancer.” I cried when I saw that and knew that I wanted to dance.
So dance I did from the late 1970s onward. I was still in college, but noticed that I kept changing my major to classes that would help me in dance like Costume History, Sewing, Business Administration, etc. And along the way, I ended up doing more dancing than college, with teaching dance, travelling, performing and directing my dance troupe.
When you are at age 5 and want to be a dancer and then become a teen and pick a more practical vocation, it is so hard to predict that you will end up doing what you wanted to do at age 5. Who knew?
Yassmeen Samra was a Mentor for me in so many ways. I am so proud to have had a chance to meet her in person at a dance workshop in Fort Worth, TX sponsored by Carol Shannon featuring Bert Balladine. I also met Amaya there and saw George Abdo perform Live in person. Talk about a dream belly dance workshop! I tried to recreate those types of Dream workshops back when I used to sponsor workshops with great teachers like Bert Balladine, Amaya, Raja Zahr, Lala Hakim, Morocco, Aisha Ali, DeAnn, The Sirocco Band, the Trans Arabian Band and many more.
I used to contact Yassmeen Samra by mail (not email, cell phone or fax back then, LOL) back in the late 1970s and early 1980s because I was a customer of her Belly Dance Bazaar. She had some great items. And she mentioned that she had became a Multi-Millionaire.
Yassmeen, you are my personal Hero in dance. With so many achievements as far as journalism, financial success in dance, personal style in dance and just being a great role model. I wish you were still around, I don’t know what happened to you, where you are, if you are still dancing, etc. I wish I still had some of my copies of the Belly Dancer Magazine from the late 1970s. But a lot can happen from 1980 to 2012. I have lived in different houses, sometimes my favorite magazines were stored in the basement, some of them got moisture damage and ended up being thrown away.
But, please check with your local libraries to see if they can get copies of them:
It looks like the magazine is in storage at New York Public Library. Were you hoping to find an article or did you need any information about the magazine itself? I also checked the Los Altos library, but they don’t show the magazine in their catalog. Let us know if we can help you with more information.
Melinda Mattingly, Reference Librarian
Also, I sent an email today to Lynette Holloway. She wrote: “From flab to fab: belly dance your way to fitness,” for the August 2007 issue of Ebony Magazine. Her website is listed below and it has her contact email address in it. Please contact her and suggest doing an article that includes dancers like Nakish, Yassmeen Samra, Zarifa Aradoon, etc. Also, the 1st 2 links below pertain to that article.
Again, 6 Degrees of Separation, shows how our belly dance paths are linked as one journey.
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I will be posting some of my original Dancer Tributes in WordPress, only the early ones that were in Twitter only, not WordPress. Back when I first starting posting the dancer tributes on Twitter I only had 2 subscribers. Now that I have more, I realized that a lot of people missed my early dancer tributes. But as I am reposting those, I will also keep adding new content for topics like Dance Choreography, new Dancer tributes, etc.
Now is your time to Join the Conversation! Comments, questions, concerns, controversy, rebuttals, tributes, etc., are all welcome!
What is your favorite recollection of “The Belly Dancer Magazine” or Yassmeen Samra?